1:1 Coaching

Missteps are data.
The best intimate lives are built, not found.

New things that don't land the way you'd imagined. Techniques that need switching up. Things you'd been frothing over for weeks that turn out to be absolutely not for you.

The people who build genuinely extraordinary intimate lives aren't the ones who were magically compatible from the start. They're the ones who stayed in the learning long enough for excellent sex to become second nature.

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Who this is for

You don't have to have everything figured out.

For couples

  • You want to want each other more than you currently do
  • You're ready to have the conversations you've been putting off
  • You're curious about exploring new territory and don't know where to start
  • Something has shifted and you can't quite name what it is
  • You want practical tools, not just a space to vent

For individuals

  • You know what you want and you're ready to learn how to ask for it
  • You're figuring out what kind of relationship actually works for you
  • You've come out of a relationship or experience and want to make sense of it
  • You're ready to be direct about what you want
  • You're ready to do the work, not just talk about doing it
The process

Simple. No unnecessary process.

01

Enquire

Fill in the form below. Tell me a little about where you are and what you're looking for. A few sentences is enough.

02

Introductory call

A 30-minute phone call. A chance to ask questions and make sure this is the right fit.

03

First session

Sessions are via video call or in person. If you're coming as two people, I'll see each of you individually first before any joint work begins.

04

Ongoing or as needed

Some people work with me across several sessions. Some need one. No pressure to commit before you know it's useful.

Investment

Straightforward pricing. No surprises.

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Introductory call

Thirty minutes by phone. A chance to ask questions, get a feel for the work, and work out whether coaching is right for you. The cost applies toward your first full session if you go ahead.

$60 NZD
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One session
Three sessions
Individual
Online $220 NZD
In person $250 NZD
Online $580 NZD
In person $650 NZD

Three sessions within an agreed timeframe.

Two people
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A minimum of three sessions is required for couples.

Online $650 NZD
In person $740 NZD

One session with each person, then one joint session.

Continuing joint sessions are $300 NZD each.

International enquiries welcome.

What to expect

Honest, direct, and occasionally uncomfortable.

I don't coach around the subject. Sessions go where they need to go, which sometimes means talking about things that feel exposing or unfamiliar. That's not a bug. It's the work.

Sessions are confidential. What's said stays here. I don't share anything, to anybody without your approval to do so. Fake names are more than welcome, but you won't need them. Please don't be offended if I don't run to say hello to you in public. This is also part of respecting your discretion.

No judgmentNo unsolicited opinions about your relationship structure or lifestyle. I've operated across enough different contexts to meet you in yours without flinching.

Not a listening serviceYou'll leave with something concrete. Not just a conversation: a direction, a tool, or a reframe that actually moves something.

Real experienceTwo decades of lived experience across relationship structures, power dynamics, and intimate contexts. Not theory. Not textbook.

Fully confidentialWhat's said in a session stays there. Always.

Get in touch

Ready to start? Or just want to ask a question.

Flick me an email and I'll get back to you as quickly as I can!