1:1 Coaching

Missteps are data.
The best intimate lives are built, not found.

The people who build genuinely extraordinary intimate lives aren't the ones who were magically compatible from the start. They're the ones who stayed in the learning long enough for excellent sex to become second nature.

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Who this is for

You don't have to have everything figured out.

For couples

  • You want to want each other more than you currently do
  • You're ready to have the conversations you've been putting off
  • You're curious about exploring new territory and don't know where to start
  • Something has shifted and you can't quite name what it is
  • You want practical tools, not just a space to vent

For individuals

  • You know what you want and you're ready to learn how to ask for it
  • You're figuring out what kind of relationship actually works for you
  • You've come out of a relationship or experience and want to make sense of it
  • You're ready to be direct about what you want
  • You're ready to do the work, not just talk about doing it
Investment

Straightforward pricing. No surprises.

Online
In person (Auckland Area)
Individual
$190 NZD

Per hour.

$250 NZD

Per hour.

Couples (joint session)
$260 NZD

Per hour, flat rate for the session.

$310 NZD

Per hour, flat rate for the session.

For couples working through more sensitive topics, I often recommend an individual session with each partner before coming together. This isn't required, but it can make joint sessions easier to approach. Ask if you're not sure what's right for you.

International enquiries welcome.

What to expect

Honest, direct, and occasionally uncomfortable.

I don't coach around the subject. Sessions go where they need to go, which sometimes means talking about things that feel exposing or unfamiliar. That's not a bug. It's the work.

Sessions are confidential. What's said stays here. I don't share anything, to anybody without your approval to do so. Fake names are more than welcome, but you won't need them. Please don't be offended if I don't run to say hello to you in public. This is also part of respecting your discretion.

No judgmentNo unsolicited opinions about your relationship structure or lifestyle. I've operated across enough different contexts to meet you in yours without flinching.

Not a listening serviceYou'll leave with something concrete. Not just a conversation: a direction, a tool, or a reframe that actually moves something.

Real experienceTwo decades of lived experience across relationship structures, power dynamics, and intimate contexts. Not theory. Not textbook.

Fully confidentialWhat's said in a session stays there. Always.

Get in touch

Ready to start? Or just want to ask a question.

Flick me an email and I'll get back to you as quickly as I can!